Sexual Assault

“Sexual abuse refers to any behavior that pressures or coerces someone to do something sexually that they don’t want to do. It can also refer to behavior that impacts a person’s ability to control their sexual activity or the circumstances in which sexual activity takes place. . . .

“Sexual abuse is never the victim’s fault. Just because someone ‘didn’t say no’ or doesn’t resist unwanted sexual advances doesn’t mean that they consent. Physical resistance can sometimes put victims at higher risk for further abuse. . . .” (Love is Respect)

Some think that if the victim didn’t resist, that it doesn’t count as abuse. That’s not true. This myth is hurtful makes it difficult for victims to speak out and more likely that they will blame themselves. Whether they were intoxicated or felt pressured, intimidated, or obligated to act a certain way, sexual assault or abuse is never the victim’s fault.

If you have been the victim of rape or sexual assault, it's common to feel shame, depression, anxiety, and fear after the attack. Remember that things will get better. You can learn how to heal and thrive again.

If someone tells you that he or she has been sexually assaulted, your caring response makes all the difference. They need your friendship and support.