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Second:  Small Group Gatherings:  (no more than 30 students to be effective)
Objective:  To create a culture within the complex that emphasizes community and our shared responsibility for one another.  Involve student in a discussion where they help to establish expectations of their peers for righteous living and cooperation. 

Mode of Implementation:
  1. Prepare packets or other venues to share basic information, such as; office hours, emergency contact information, lounge and laundry hours, etc.  This is NOT a meeting to impart logistics nor rules pertaining to the complex.  
  2. Plan to meet for no more than 45 minutes.  You can have a great discussion in that time. 
  3. Utilize the Student Living Video to set the stage for discussing the three principles of Student Living: Love, Shared Responsibility, and Mutual Respect.   (Found on the Student Living main page www.byui.edu/studentliving ).  
  4. Invite students to share insights from the video and their experience applying any of the principles in their apartments.  Use good questions.  Dig deep, ask meaningful and purposeful questions. 
    • "What does "Love" look like in an apartment?"
    • "Why is "Love" an essential characteristic in an apartment?"
    • "In what ways does our 'Shared Responsibility' extend beyond keeping the apartment clean?"
    • How does keeping University guidelines demonstrate "Mutual Respect"?
    • What happens when roommates are casual in their keeping of commandments or standards?
  5. Refrain from doing a presentation!  This is intended to be a discussion. You can facilitate an entire discussion using only questions and follow with quotes from the Student Living Guidebook, scriptures, or other gospel resources.  (For the Strength of Youth, etc.) 
  6. You may consider dividing the time with Ecclesiastical leaders and invite a bishop or ward leaders to share in the development of a positive and righteous culture in the complex.