October 3, 2002

Elder Backman shares defining experiences

 

            Elder Robert L. Backman, an emeritus member of the First Quorum of the Seventy, shared guiding scriptures and his life’s experiences in his devotional address at Brigham Young University-Idaho Oct. 1.

He began by reading Robert Frost’s “The Road Not Taken” and explained that choices made now have a great effect on the rest of life.

“Looking back on rich, eventful years, I wondered why I made one choice instead of another, why I did this instead of the other. The only conclusion I can draw is that I’ve been guided by the Lord. He’s watched over me, cared for me, inspired me, warned me, instructed me, protected me and shown me the way to go. I’ve heard the still, small voice of the Holy Spirit . . . and that has made all the difference.”

He then shared scriptures that had helped him make decisions throughout his life and subsequent “defining experiences.”

The first scripture, Matthew 6:33, is the “sum and substance” of setting life’s priorities.

As a young student at the University of Utah, Elder Backman decided to resign from the ROTC and serve a mission. In his trip to Chicago to meet the mission president and then to Dayton, Ohio, to meet his companions, loneliness consumed him. Later, however, as he and his companions sang “More Holiness Give Me” at a cottage meeting, his feelings changed.

“I felt at home. I was doing something productive to build the kingdom of God. Instantly I knew that I had made the right choice, that I was ought to be, and I rejoiced in my calling as an ambassador of my Lord and Savior.” His mission, he said, better prepared himself for life’s adventures that lay ahead.

The next scripture, found in D&C 122: 5, 7 and 9, brought comfort at a time when he was in the infantry in World War II and was given orders to go to the Pacific. His wife had delivered their first baby girl while he was in training, and as they left the shores of America, he found himself wondering if he’d ever see his country again, if he’d ever get to know his daughter, how he could live through combat, how he could live in a foxhole, how he could kill a fellow human being, whether he would see his wife again, and whether he would ever enjoy a normal family life. But in the midst of those feelings of desolation, he was given comfort.

The next scripture, DC 88:77-80, led Elder Backman to pursue his schooling. He entered law school, and decided that he did not want to accept a calling, as that may prove a distraction to his studies. However, the phrase “seek ye first the kingdom of God” entered his mind, and soon he accepted a call to serve as the deacon’s quorum adviser. Despite the law school dean’s threats that outside pursuits would prevent graduation, Elder Backman had served as a deacons quorum adviser, in the ward Sunday school superintendency, in the stake Sunday school superintendency and as the stake YMMIA president by the time he graduated.

He quoted N. Eldon Tanner who taught that sacrifice in the Church means “giving up something good for something better.”

Elder Backman described DC 131:1-4 as a scripture that gives “entry into eternal life and exaltation.” He encouraged students to be thoughtful in considering marriage partners.

“You don’t have to trust to blind luck when it comes to the qualities that really count in a marriage. I’m so glad that my wife turned out to be a person of character, who served as a wonderful partner, a dedicated and excellent mother and a strong Latter-day Saint with the same goals, hopes, and aspirations that I had. . . .  Be careful in your courtship.”

Finally, he shared Joshua 1:9, a scripture “we need to keep in mind as we face uncertainties of life and think we’re so inadequate to do anything the lord asks us to do.”

“I am old enough now to know that life is full of joy and sorrow, pleasure and pain, health and sickness, good and bad, tragedy and triumph, even the pain or unpleasant events in lives may be given to us for our experience, our discipline, and our learning,” Elder Backman said. “As I’ve grown older, I’ve realized how important choices I made so long ago were and what an impact they’ve had on my entire life.”

Elder Backman was called to serve as a member of the First Quorum of the Seventy in 1978.  He served in the presidency of that quorum in 1985.  His chief assignments have been executive director of the Missionary Department and a member of the Missionary Executive Committee.  He served as the worldwide president of the Young Men from 1979 to 1985.  He became an Emeritus General Authority in 1992 and for the next five years served as vice chairman of the Church Sesquicentennial Committee for the commemoration of the arrival of the pioneers in the Salt Lake Valley.  As a young man, he served in the Northern States Mission.

Elder Backman graduated from the University of Utah Law School.  He is a veteran of World War II, having served in New Guinea, the Philippines and Japan.

Elder Backman’s civic involvement has been extensive.  He served as president of the Salt Lake City Executives Association, president of the Utah Land Title Association, on the Utah Bar Association, the American Bar Association, the American Land Title Association, and as a member of the House of Representative in the Utah State Legislature.

Born in Salt Lake City to LeGrand P. and Edith Price Backman, he married the late Virginia Pickett of Salt Lake City.  They are the parents of seven daughters and have 31 grandchildren and 17 great-grandchildren.  He was married Sept. 21, 2001, to Janet Woodbury Rigby.

Devotionals are broadcast live on KBYI 100.5 FM Tuesdays at 2 p.m. and are rebroadcast Tuesdays and Sundays at 9 p.m. Next week’s devotional speaker is Ann Madsen, a professor of ancient scripture at BYU.  # # #

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


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